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Video on why I only date white men and always will. In this video I talk about inter racial relationships/interracial dating/swirl couples. I also discuss why I have never dated black men and the effects of misogynoir on black women, especially on dark skinned woman. Being a dark skin woman and seeing black men only date light skin has affected the way I approach black men.

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SincerelyOghosa says:

Hi Guys!

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Esther Bakari says:

this was honestly the beautiful thing ive ever heard, I never looked at society in this way and I think a voice like yours needs to be more heard and widespread! thank you x

Lexi Thompson says:

Yeah, not so great title, but relatable as soon as you explain.

Coin Ru says:

Why so many dislikes? She speaks the truth

xxphillips says:

There is nothing wrong with you and yes I'm black just focus on God and moving forward in life. I will email you. You're not a ugly duckling if you're happy we can be friends on Facebook. God bless

ZD H says:

I'm not black but as a WOC what you say resonates, especially about the approval of white people being the highest level of achievement. You are very articulate and I appreciate your critical thinking and level headed approach on this topic. There is beauty in all races and on a basic level nothing wrong with interracial relationships but I do agree that most of the time, ideas of racial superiority/inferiority are playing a big part in those choices to date outside ones racial group.

Laitalafraise says:

I loved your video!!

T Stanton says:

This is a good video. Very honest

Royaltydeaux says:


Hi love! I thought your video was lovely! I hate the fact that people haven’t taken the time to look at your video. They will truly get something out of it.

There’s a video that you will like that is quite similar to yours. It’s by a YouTuber named Chrissie. Please check it out! It’s very educational. Let me know what you think.


Jess D says:

Girl! I loved this video. Although I'm attracted to all men and will date all. I'm 90% always approached by white or mixed raced men. I've never been on a date with a black man, even though I'd want to. Just don't really get approached as much, maybe it's whereabouts in London I grew up. Shrugs shoulders.

Betterme4lf says:

I don't have any need of validation from a white or Black person. If you seek that it will disappoint no matter what race. Seek you own validation and the good Black man will come.. or whoever you seek

Emma B says:

I applaud you for speaking your truth & being candid about the experiences & choices you've made and for ultimately being open to love however God brings it to you. Blessings ❤️🙌🏽

Dave says:

As a white guy growing up in London, from my experience, it's mainly black men with the problem. I found that most dark skinned black women wanted black men but it was the black men who weren't interested. Most were almost exclusively into white and then light skinned girls (in that order). There's allot of reasons for this and it's very complex. The issue I have with them is that they tend to blame the dark skinned black female for their own sexual preferences. So for example, they'll mock their hair but then when that girl then decides to wear weave/extensions, they'll then claim that black women aren't true to their routes and that's why they don't date them. Like I said, it;s mostly black men with the problem.

E Forni says:

Well done for making this video. It is always to examine our thoughts and beliefs.

Philisiwe Dlamini says:

I have had the same experience and it has messed up my self esteem

ThickStick says:

Did you only go after light skinned/mixed black boys?  I'm half way thru so i don't want to assume just yet

Supadupa Malt says:

Funny how the black guy in your thumbnail is dating a racially ambiguous woman..Liked this video! Keep coming with more, you have earned a new subscriber!!!!🙋🏾‍♀️

Kesiah Delali says:

love this video

Dahlia says:

my experience 100%, exactly the same! anti-blackness is global and weaponized against us, as black women, the most. It takes a lot of self work to overcome the trauma inflicted on us by black men, but I believe it's possible. thank you so much for this video. <3

Macky Cherif says:

Listen, white supremacy fucked both black men and women up from the get go.. Ever since we were kids ( if u born in the 90's) All Princes and Princess' in Disney movies and other fairytales in general were light Skinned.. Period!.. the fact that you yourself were attracted to a lighter guy at such a young age shows it's a 2 way street. So running and laying in the arms of the very people that have brainwashed us in the first place is never the answer. I love your story because we all go through it.
As a black man I was attracted to lighter girls also until I grew mentally enough to break free from that thought process. I just want black women to understand why black men act the way they do towards them..it's not their fault. Black ppl are not in control of the media period!. Being constantly Bombarded with "Paleness is greatness" 24 hours a day Seeps through your subconscious whether u know it or not. (Research Edward Bernays on media mind control)
I'm happy your open to dating Black men 😊 cuz a lot of us waking up 2. Now we should spread the word and let the world know Black love is not only beautiful but essential..✊🏾..stay woke Queen#❤️

Goddess ByNature says:

I respect your transparency. Real talk!

Esther Vandi says:

Not gonna lie…..came here thinking I was gonna hate this video but….you're right😔 I'm nearly 20 and they are still like that. I got treated like a useless object and was bullied by black boys(still attracted to them) and I saw that MOSTLY the white and light skinned girls got the most attention…..Their bullying and misogyny affected me so much that I thought I was the ugliest girl in the world… I only just realised that I'm not. I suffered from extreme anxiety and well…you know the rest…..it really got to me. Thank you for making this video. I really needed to hear this, especially from another black British girl. I feel like a lot of us don't really talk about this enough in this country.

corey thomas says:

Black women I love you your the best

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