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“What to Do When He Disappears or Pulls Away”
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In this video, Clayton discusses about specific steps on what a woman should do when her man pull away or disappear in the middle of their dating relationship.
Mike: What should women do when he’s not taxing or not calling? What is her best plan of action?
Clayton: It is context-dependent. It depends on when it really happens within the interaction.
If it happens in the beginning, [if] the guy disappears, she has to really take an inventory about whether or not they really have a connection.
If they if they really did have a connection and suddenly he drops off, it is important to have an innocent until proven guilty mindset, right. So rather than assuming that this guy has lost interest and he doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore, and suddenly her defenses go up and she responds from that place – she responds in the place of mainly genuine curiosity about what happened if he’s okay. She hasn’t seen her a bit. Maybe even some vulnerability. You know, “Hey I really enjoyed talking with you and I’m wondering what happened?” And that is okay to do.
Being able to have [or] express your emotions rather than hide behind some type of defense, is a way that we, as people, are able to eliminate the game plane that naturally comes up in the dating world.
Games comes as a result of one or both parties not being vulnerable with where they’re at.
So, that’s one way to initiate and possibly rekindle the connection if the guy is not texting. If he doesn’t respond or his response is lackluster at that point, I don’t encourage women to pursue it at that point any further. But really to move on to the next one because the only thing that’s going to happen when she begins to pursue is she moves even more into the masculine role he, moves more into the receptive role and it just ends up being a waste of time more times than not.
Mike: Awesome I love that.
Clayton: If it happens later in a relationship if they actually have got a connection and the guy pulls away, again an innocent until proven guilty mindset.
They pull away because the emotions that they might be feeling within the connection can get so intense that in my words that it almost can short-circuit the guy’s the neurology. And in order for him to reset, he’s got to pull away.
In order for him to get respective and see what actually happens, he find himself, he finds his center and build off the desire and then come back in.
And who the woman is in the face of the man pulling away, how the woman shows up, how she decides to react to him pulling away, communicate so much to him about her value, about her, [about] how she sees herself and her self-esteem.
Mike: Wow that was a phenomenal and that my favorite answer in all of my interviews. I loved every second of that. Ladies that was it… that was it.
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