How to Overcome Male Performance Anxiety

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“When I’m not interested in sex, it makes me feel like I’m not a man. In fact, my wife wants it more than me so I came up with the excuse of chronic back pain. I think it’s easier for her to accept. What’s wrong with me?” – David, Clifton, New Jersey

Men are under pressure in life, and in the bedroom, to be untiring, masterful and dominant. It’s assumed men are always up for sex and women’s interest is much less, and subjective.

It’s time we stop this oversimplification of men and start debunking some of our most dear assumptions about men. Leave your comments on the blog where the primary discussion is taking place:


Ilse Wenzel says:

A gentleman I know tells me he takes care of himself and that a woman adds to it but he is the only one to satisfy himself. I have never encountered this. Am I wasting my time here? All he seems to think about is sex and he is 65 and has erectile disfunction when it comes to a woman

xgeneric99 says:

Having to pursue 100% of the time is one thing, but then getting turned down 99% of the time is the other. It's a no win.

Denise Devoto says:

If the woman has the higher sex drive, she is the one who is always initiating sex, and the one who is getting rejected. I, for one, am sick of it.

LichfeldianSuttonian says:

Thank you, Ester.  Many thanks for sharing.  This is like a balm to a wound. 🙂

ZIIISH says:

If anyone should have a YouTube channle or a podcast, it's you! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and talks with us.

2QUICK says:

Will You marry me Esther? You are incredible!

Lazar Kostic says:

Kudos for the video content! Forgive me for butting in, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you ever tried – Rozardner Big Signals Reality (just google it)? It is a great one off product for learning how to last longer in bed minus the hard work. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my m8 at last got great results with it.

peneleapai says:

Great ❤️ from kindergarten age onwards, males should all know this

Sara Kim says:

ESTHER PEREL! So happy you have a youtube channel!! Immediately subscribed. Can't wait to hear more from you 😀

Garnet S Word says:

"Cito rumpes arcum, semper si tensum habueris"

Indie Media Eastcoast says:

thanks Esther… your book is terrific reading for married couples xx

inseon jeon says:

hi Esther! love you ❤

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